Inner critic

Hey
I'm your life
I'm the one who takes you there
Hey
I'm your life
I'm the one who cares

Metallica

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Sometimes
I wrestle with my demons,
and sometimes
we just snuggle.

—Seen on a magnet
in Cliff’s Variety Store

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It's no surprise to me
I am my own worst enemy
'cause every now an
d then
I kick the living shit out of me

Lit

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I always thought it was me against the world, and then one day I realized it’s just me against me.

—Kendrick Lamar

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The most difficult times for many of us are the ones we give ourselves.

—Pema Chödrön

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This being human is a guest house
Every morning a new arrival
A joy, a depression, a meanness
Some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor
Welcome and entertain them all

Jalal al-Din Rumi

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if i am the longest relationship
of my life
isn't it time to
nurture intimacy
and love
with the person
i lie in bed with each night

—rupi kaur

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We have all a better guide in ourselves. if we would attend to it, than any other person can be.

—Jane Austen

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I celebrate myself, and sing myself

Walt Whitman

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To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

—Oscar Wilde

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Perhaps everything terrible is in its deepest being something helpless that wants help from us.

—Rainer Maria Rilke

Inner critic check-in practice

6 Fs parts check-in & unblending practice

5-step unblending & check-in practice with a worried part

Poem: Why am I not good enough?

Poem: The Guest House

Poem: I am not i

The unburdened internal system

No Bad Parts

The 8 C & 5 P qualities of Self energy

IFS glossary of terms

The concept of unblending in Internal Family Systems therapy

5-step unblending & check-in practice with a worried part

Parts map: What part wants my attention?

Self to part: If I really knew you, what would I know?

On-the-spot Self-care-for-parts practice

Mirror dance